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                                                 Thanks 
                                                  for your note to FEMINIST.COM. 
                                                  Because you said that you were 
                                                  "trying to heal from a past 
                                                  sexual assault" I assume that 
                                                  you already have resources/outlets 
                                                  for yourself. I say this because--as 
                                                  you have Identified, these are 
                                                  two different issues--one, healing 
                                                  yourself, and two, getting help 
                                                  for your partner. I just wanted 
                                                  to make sure that each is being 
                                                  weighted equally. With that 
                                                  assumption here are groups to 
                                                  contact re: getting suggestions 
                                                  for other groups specifically 
                                                  working to cut "addiction to 
                                                  porn." "Men's groups" are a 
                                                  good place to start for references: 
                                                   
                                                 
                                                  - Men's' 
                                                    Issues Discussion Group, 
                                                    
 
                                                    Reed College,  
                                                    3203 NE Woodstock Blvd., 
                                                    Portland, OR 97202.  
                                                   - Men 
                                                    Stopping Rape, Inc. 
 
                                                    PO Box 316,  
                                                    306 North Brooks Street,  
                                                    Madison, WI 53715.  
                                                   - National 
                                                    Organization for Men Against 
                                                    Sexism, 
 
                                                    c/o MOVE,  
                                                    54 Mint Street,  
                                                    Suite 300,  
                                                    San Francisco, CA 94103.  
                                                   - Students 
                                                    Organizing Against Pornography, 
                                                    
 
                                                    Dept. of Philosophy,  
                                                    Miami University,  
                                                    Oxford, Ohio 45056.  
                                                  
                                                You 
                                                should contact Diana Russell, 
                                                who is an "expert" on ending pornography. 
                                                She is a professor at Mills College. 
                                                Good luck to you and your partner 
                                                - thanks. 
                                                 
                                                  Amy   
                                              
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