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Dear
Amy,
When
they were planning their wedding
over four years ago, Jason (Belinda's
husband) got a little friendly
with me. When I say he got a
little too friendly with me
I mean he was actually flirting
with me. He would refer to me
as his girlfriend (even though
he was getting ready to marry
someone else), he asked me to
sit in his lap, he grabbed my
butt, and there were times when
he said that I was coming on
to him when it was the other
way around.
There
were other things that he said
and did that I vaguely remember.
What surprised me the most was
that Belinda didn't seem at
all jealous and certainly didn't
tell him that he was out of
line-she would even laugh at
him when he started flirting
with me. As their wedding day
started to draw closer, I realized
that I was developing feelings
for him, but I never told Belinda
because I thought that telling
her something like that would
hurt her but I think that she
finally figured it out.
I
would like to know does what
Jason did constitute as sexual
harassment or was he just being
friendly and were my feelings
for him normal?
Confused,
Mandy
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