I
had been haunted by a question to the past, a
mystery of feminist history: How did the radical
suffragists come to their vision, a vision not of
Band-Aid reform but of a reconstituted world
completely transformed?
For
20 years I had immersed myself in the writings of
early United States women's rights activists --
Matilda Joslyn Gage (1826-1898), Elizabeth Cady
Stanton (1815-1902), Lucretia Mott (1793-1880) --
yet I could not fathom how they dared to dream
their revolutionary dream. Living under the
ideological hegemony of nineteenth-century United
States, they had no say in government, religion,
economics, or social life ("the four-fold
oppression" of their lives, Gage and Stanton called
it.) Whatever made them think that human harmony
-- based on the perfect equality of all people,
with women absolute sovereigns of their lives --
was an achievable goal?
Surely
these white women, living under conditions of
virtual slavery, did not get their vision in a
vacuum. Somehow they were able to see from point A,
where they stood -- corseted, ornamental, legally
nonpersons -- to point C, the "regenerated" world
Gage predicted, in which all repressive
institutions would be destroyed. What was point B
in their lives, the earthly alternative that drove
their feminist spirit -- not a utopian pipe dream
but a sensible, do-able paradigm?
Then
I realized I had been skimming over the source of
their inspiration without noticing it. My own
unconscious white supremacy had kept me from
recognizing what these prototypical feminists kept
insisting in their writings: They caught a glimpse
of the possibility of freedom because they knew
women who lived liberated lives, women who had
always possessed rights beyond their wildest
imagination -- Iroquois women.
The
more evidence I uncovered of this indelible Native
American influence on the vision of early United
States feminists, the more certain I became that
this story must be told.
A
Vision of Everyday Decency
It
is difficult for white Americans today to picture
the extended period in history when -- before the
United States government's Indian-reservation
system, like apartheid, concretized a separation of
the races in the last half of the nineteenth
century -- regular trade, cultural sharing, even
friendship between Native Americans and
Euro-Americans was common. Perhaps nowhere was this
now-lost social ease more evident than in the towns
and villages in upstate New York where Elizabeth
Cady Stanton and Matilda Joslyn Gage lived, and
Lucretia Mott visited. All three suffragists
personally knew Iroquois women, citizens of the
six-nation confederacy (Seneca, Cayuga, Onondaga,
Oneida, Mohawk, and later Tuscarora) that had
established peace among themselves before Columbus
came to this "old" world.
Stanton,
for instance, sat across the dinner table from
Oneida women during her frequent visits to her
cousin, the radical social activist Gerrit Smith,
in Peterboro. Smith's daughter, also named
Elizabeth, was first to shed the 20 pounds of
clothing that, fashion dictated, should hang from a
white woman's waist, dangerously deformed from
corseting. The reform costume Elizabeth Smith
adopted (named the "Bloomer" after the newspaper
editor who popularized it) bore an uncanny
resemblance to the loose-fitting tunic and leggings
worn by the two Elizabeth's' Native American
friends.
Gage,
appointed by a women's rights convention in the
1850's, worked on a committee with New York
Tribune editor Horace Greeley to document the
woefully few jobs open to white women. Meanwhile
she knew hardy, nearby Onondaga women who farmed
corn, beans, and squash -- nutritionally balanced
and ecologically near-perfect crops called the
Three Sisters by the Haudenosaunee (traditional
Iroquois).
Lucretia
Mott and her husband, James, were members of the
Indian committee of the Philadelphia yearly Meeting
of the Society of Friends. For years this committee
of Quakers befriended the Seneca, setting up a
school and model farm at Cattaraugus and helping
them save some of their territory from unscrupulous
land speculators. In the summer of 1848 Mott spent
a month a Cattaraugus witnessing women share in
discussion and decision-making as the Seneca nation
reorganized their governmental structure. Her
feminist vision fired by that experience, Mott
traveled that July from the Seneca nation to nearby
Seneca Falls, where she and Stanton held the
world's first women's rights convention.
Stanton,
Gage, and Mott regularly read newspaper accounts of
everyday Iroquois activities -- a recent condolence
ceremony (to mourn a chief's death and to set in
place a new one); the latest sports scores (a
lacrosse match between the Mohawk and the
Onondaga); a Quaker council called to ask Seneca
women to leave their fields and work in the home
(as the Friends said God commanded but as Mott
opposed). Stanton, Gage, and Mott could also read
that according to interviews with white teachers at
various Indian nations, Indian men did not rape
women. Front page stories admonished big-city
dandies to learn a thing or two from Indian men's
example, so that white women too could walk around
any time of the day or night without
fear.
In
the United States, until women's rights advocates
began the painstaking task of changing state laws,
a husband had the legal right to batter his wife
(to interfere would "upset the domestic tranquility
of the home," one state supreme court held). but
suffragists lived as neighbors to men of other
nations whose religious, legal, social, and
economic concept of women mad such behavior
unthinkable. Haudenosaunee spiritual practices were
spelled out in an oral tradition called the Code of
Handsome Lake, which told this cautionary tale (as
reported by a white woman who was a contemporary of
Stanton and Gage) of what would befall batterers in
the after life:
[A
man] who was in the habit of beating his
wife, was led to the red-hot statue of a female,
and requested to treat it as he had done his
wife. He commenced beating it, and the sparks
flew out and were continually burning him. Thus
would it be done to all who beat their
wives.
To
Stanton, Gage, Mott, and their feminist
contemporaries, the Native American conception of
everyday decency, nonviolence, and gender justice
must have seemed the promised land.
A
Vision of Power and Security
As
a feminist historian, I did not at first pay
attention to such references to American Indian
life because I believed what I had been taught:
that Native American women were poor, downtrodden
"beasts of burden" (as they were often called in
the nineteenth century). I did not know what I was
looking for, so of course I could not see
it.
I
remembered that in the early 1970's some feminist
historians flirted with the idea of prehistoric
matriarchies on which to pin women's egalitarian
hopes. Anthropologists soon set us straight about
such nonsense. the evidence just wasn't there, they
said. But Paula Gunn Allen, a Laguna Pueblo/Sioux
author and scholar, believed otherwise. "Before we
decide," she wrote in 1981,
that
belief in ancient matriarchal civilization is an
irrational concept born of conjecture and wish,
let us adjust our perspective to match that of
our foresisters. Then, when we search the
memories and lore of tribal peoples, we might be
able to see what eons and all kinds of
institutions have conspired to hide from our
eyes... The evidence is all around us. It
remains for us to discover what it means.
Allen's
words opened by eyes, threw into question
everything I thought I knew about the
nineteenth-century women's movement, and sent me on
a wholly new course of historical discovery. The
results shook the foundation of the feminist theory
I had been teaching for almost 20 years.
About
eight years ago, early in my new phase of research,
I sat in the kitchen of Alice Papineau-Dewasenta,
an Onondaga clan mother. Over iced tea, Alice
described to me the unbroken custom by which
traditional Iroquois (Haudenosaunee) clan mothers
nominate the male chiefs who go on to represent
their clans in the Grand Council. She listed the
qualifications: "First, they cannot have committed
a theft. Second, they cannot have committed a
murder. Third, they cannot have sexually assaulted
a woman."
There
goes Congress! I thought to myself. Then a
wishful fantasy occurred: What if only women in the
United States chose governmental representatives
and, like Haudenosaunee women, alone had the right
"to knock the horns off the head," as Stanton
marveled -- to oust officials if they failed to
represent the needs of the people unto the seventh
generation?
If
I am so inspired by Alice's words to dream today,
imagine how the founding feminists felt as they
beheld the Iroquois world. For instance, shortly
after Matilda Joslyn Gage was arrested in 1893 at
her home in New York for the "crime" of trying to
vote in a school board election, she was adopted
into the Wolf clan of the Mohawk nation and given
the name Karonienhawi (Sky Carrier). In the Mohawk
nation, women alone had the authority to nominate
the chief, after counseling with all the people of
the clan. What must it have meant to Gage to know
of such real-life political power?
And
Elizabeth Cady Stanton -- called a heretic and
worse for advocating divorce laws that would allow
women to leave loveless and dangerous marriages --
admired the model of divorce Iroquois style: "No
matter how many children or whatever goods he might
have in the house," Stanton informed the National
council of women convention in 1891, the "luckless
husband or lover who was too shiftless to do his
share of the providing" in an Iroquois marriage
"might at any time be ordered to pick up his
blanket and budge; and after such an order it would
not be healthful for him to attempt to disobey."
What must it have meant to Stanton to know of such
real-life domestic security?
A
Vision of Radical Respect
While
early women's rights activists began to be
successful in changing some repressive laws, an
ensuing backlash in the 1870's resulted in the
criminalization of birth control and family
planning; and child custody remained the right of
fathers. How then, did Stanton and her daughter
Harriot envision "voluntary motherhood" -- a
revolutionary alternative to the patriarchal
family, with women controlling their own bodies and
having rights to the children they bore? Well, a
short distance from the Stanton home in Seneca
Falls, the Seneca women practiced it.
Among
the Haudenosaunee, family lineage was reckoned
through mothers; no child was born a "bastard" (the
concept didn't exist); every child found a loving
and welcome place in a mother's world, surrounded
by a mother's sisters, her mother, and the men whom
they married. Unmarried sons and brothers lived in
this large extended family, too, until they left
home to marry into another matrilocal clan. Stanton
envied how American Indian women "ruled the house"
and how "descent of property and children were in
the female line." Gage, while serving as president
of the National Woman Suffrage Association in 1875,
penned a series of admiring articles about the
Iroquois for the New York Evening Post in
which she wrote that the "division of power between
the sexes in its Indian republic was nearly equal"
while the Iroquois family structure "demonstrated
woman's superiority in power." For these white
women living in a world where marital rape was
commonplace and forbidden by neither church nor
state (although the Comstock Laws of the 1870's
outlawed discussion of it), Indian women's
violence-free and empowered home life must have
looked like heaven.
It
wasn't simply that Euro-American women had no
rights; once they married they had no legal
existence. "The two shall become one and the one is
the man," preached Christianity. This canon
(church) law had been turned into common law,
according to which married women were legally dead;
therefore married women could not have custody of
their children or rights to their own property or
earnings, sign contracts, sue or be sued, or
vote.
Until
women's rights advocates began to change divorce
laws in the last half of the nineteenth century,
divorce was not allowed by church or state. Women
fleeing from a violent husband could be returned to
him by the police, as runaway slaves were returned
to their master. Husbands could will away an unborn
child, and the baby would be taken from its mother
and given to its "rightful owner." and until the
Married Women's Property Acts were slowly enacted
state by state throughout the nineteen century, any
money a wife earned or inherited belonged outright
to her husband.
A
married woman was "nameless, purseless and
childless," Stanton summed up, though she be "a
woman, heiress and mother." Calling for an end to
this injustice, the early suffragists were labeled
hopeless dreamers for imaging a world so clearly
against nature, and worse, heretics for daring to
question God's divine plan.
From
her firsthand knowledge of the Iroquois, Stanton
knew that the patriarchal "women's sphere" was not
universal. When called a "savage," for instance,
for practicing natural childbirth, Stanton rebutted
her critics by mocking their use of the word,
pointing out that Indian women "do not suffer"
giving birth -- thus it was absurd to suppose "that
only enlightened Christian women are cursed" by
painful, difficult childbirth. Stanton, whose major
work, The Woman's Bible, was published in
1895, became convinced that the oppression of women
was not divinely inspired at all. "The
Bible," she wrote,
makes
woman a mere after thought in creation; the
author of evil; cursed in her maternity; a
subject in marriage; and claims divine authority
for this fourfold bondage, this wholesale
desecration of the mothers of the race. I do not
believe God ever wrote or inspired such
sentiments.
Gage
agreed, naming the church the "bulwark" of women's
oppression. "In the name of religion," Gage wrote
in Woman, Church and State, published in
1893, "the worst crimes against humanity have ever
been perpetrated."
In
the 1890's, when the religious right tried to
destroy religious freedom by placing God in the
Constitution and prayer in public schools, and by
pushing a conservative political agenda, Stanton
and Gage (Mott had died) determined to challenge
the church. Their theory held that women in
indigenous cultures had respect and authority in
egalitarian and woman-centered societies that
worshipped a female deity. This matriarchal system
was overthrown, Stanton contended, when
"Christianity putting the religious weapon into
man's hand made his conquest complete."
A
common mythology held that Christianity and
civilization meant progress for women, but Stanton
and Gage saw through it. At the 1888 International
Council of Women, they listened as Alice Fletcher,
a noted white ethnographer, spoke about the greater
rights of American Indian women. Fletcher made
clear that these Indian women were well aware that
when they became United States citizens, they would
lose their rights. Fletcher quoted one woman who
told her:
As
an Indian woman I was free. I owned by home, my
person, the work of my own hands, and my
children should never forget me. I was better as
an Indian woman than under white law.
Fletcher
also quoted an Indian man who reproached white men:
"Your laws show how little your men care for their
women. The wife is nothing of herself." He was not
alone in chastising white men for their domination
of women. A Tuscarora chief, Elia Johnson, wiring
about the absence of rape among Iroquois men in his
popular 1881 book, Legends, Traditions and Laws,
of the Iroquois, or Six Nations..., commented
wryly that European men had held the same respect
for women "until they became civilized". A Cayuga
chief, Dr. Peter Wilson, addressing the New York
Historical Society in 1866, encouraged white men to
use the occasion of Southern reconstruction to
establish universal suffrage, "even of the women,
as in his nation." Today, try as I might, I cannot
begin to imagine how such Iroquois men's radical
respect for women's lives must have sounded to
early feminists' ears.
A
Vision of Responsibilities
A
few years ago I was invited to lecture at the
annual Elizabeth Cady Stanton birthday tea in
Seneca Falls with Audrey Shenandoah, the Onondaga
nation Deer clan mother. A crowd of my feminist
contemporaries packed the elegant, century-old
hotel, and I spoke of my deep gratitude for the
profound influence of the Iroquois on early
feminists' vision of women's rights.
Than
Audrey talked matter-of-factly about the
responsibilities of Haudenosaunee women in their
system of gender balance. Iroquois women continue
to have the responsibility of nominating,
counseling, and keeping in office the male chief
who represents the clan in the grand council. In
the six nations of the Iroquois confederacy, she
explained, Haudenosaunee women have worked with the
men to successfully guard their sovereign political
status against persistent attempts to turn them
into United Stated citizens. In Audrey's direct and
simple telling, the social power of the
Haudenosaunee women seemed almost unremarkable --
"We have always had these responsibilities," she
said. I caught my breath again, remembering that
radical suffragists also knew such women who lived
their vision.
My
feminist terminology, I realized, had revealed my
cultural bias. Out of habit I had referred to
women's empowerment as women's "rights." But for
Iroquois women who have maintained many of their
traditional ways despite two centuries of white
America's attempts to "civilize and Christianize"
them, the concept of women's "rights" actually has
little meaning. to the Haudenosaunee, it is simply
their way of life. Their egalitarian relationships
and their political authority are a reality that --
like my foresisters -- I still but
dream.
Mother
Earth Does Not Revolve Around the Son: An
Afterward
I
arrive, hurried, at the home of Ethel, a friend
with whom I work. We have exactly an hour to meet,
squeezed into a tight travel schedule. After
pleasantries we get down to business, moving along
at a smooth clip, and it looks as if we will
finish on time when suddenly her son enters. A
strapping 17-year-old, he fills the room with his
presence. Ethel beams at him and hangs on his every
word as he describes his teachers' deadlines, clean
uniform needs, other mundane details of his day.
Virginia Woolf got it right: His mother's admiring
gaze reflects him twice life size. He never
acknowledges my presence, she doesn't introduce us,
and our work is forgotten. When finally he walks
out, Ethel and I scramble to tie up loose ends,
some of which still dangle as I dash out the
door.
Ethel
is Euro-American; her son stands poised to inherit
the world.
A
week later I sit in my friend Jeanne's living room,
enjoyably chatting. I hear her 17-year-old son in
the kitchen rattling pans, perhaps cooking or
washing dishes. Minutes later he appears and places
cups of tea in front of us, his gift offered
unobtrusively, his demeanor without display. I look
up to thank him but he is gone, his back already
turned as he repairs to the kitchen. Jeanne seems
not even to notice, and our conversation
continues.
Jeanne
is Onondaga, a Haudenosaunee, descended from the
traditional, "pagan" Iroquois --those who refused
to be "Christianized" and "civilized." Her son
recognized his mother, and all women, as the center
of the culture.
Such
sons of such mothers belonged to our foresisters'
vision, too. They are sons who learned from their
fathers to respect the sovereignty of women. They
are sons of a tradition in which rape and battering
of women was virtually unknown until white
contact.
This
article was originally published in the On the
Issues, Winter 1996.
Sally
Roesch Wagner : One of the first women to receive a doctorate for work in women’s studies in the United States (UC Santa Cruz, 1978), Dr. Wagner is also a founder of one of the country’s first women’s studies programs at California State University, Sacramento (1970). A women’s studies professor for 34 years and now Executive Director of the Gage Foundation in Fayetteville, New York, Wagner is the nation’s foremost authority on Matilda Joslyn Gage.
Dr. Wagner appeared as a “talking head” in Ken Burns’ PBS documentary, “Not for Ourselves Alone: The Story of Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B. Anthony”, for which she wrote the accompanying faculty guide. She was an historian in the PBS special, “One Woman, One Vote” and has been interviewed on National Public Radio’s “All Things Considered” and “Democracy Now.”
The 1997 Jeanette K. Watson Women’s Studies Distinguished Visiting Professor in the Humanities at Syracuse University and author of numerous books and articles, Wagner’s recent titles include: She Who Holds the Sky: Matilda Joslyn Gage (Sky Carrier Press, 2003); Introduction to the reprint of Matilda Joslyn Gage’s 1893 classic Woman, Church and State (Humanity Books, 2002); and Sisters in Spirit: Haudenosaunee (Iroquois) Influence on Early American Feminists (Native Voices, 2001).
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