don't think there is only one
way that men and women should
interact with/relate with one
another. As every person - male
and female - is extremely different
- and the many characteristics
that we possess as individuals
are not based on gender, but
on our personalities and the
experiences we have had, which
could be based on our gender,
but are also often shaped by
our race, class, ability, etc.....
I think that to answer the second
question - in line with my thinking
above - is that this justice
is based on an understanding
on these differences as well
as these similarities.
Reading some other articles
might help you to understanding
different reasons, too. Deborah
Tannen wrote You Just Don't
Understand and bell hooks
has written many articles which
point to this same discussion.
Good luck and I hope this helps.