M y general philosophy is each to their own.
Personally I am a huge fan of girly things -- I wear dresses 90% of the time, I have worn the same perfume since I was 15 (I'm 33) and I love having dinner parties and doing other things around the house. And am totally flattered when someone refers to me as "Martha Stewart for My Generation."
However, I recognize this is my personal choice and would never impose this on others. I love that people dress differently -- some more butch than others.
As for your being picked on -- that certainly hasn't been my experience, so my guess is that it isn't the things you are decorating yourself with, but your attitude -- and being girly and being prissy aren't synonmous -- not that you are that way, but I know that some people thing these qualities go hand-in-hand and the latter is just annoying and others recognize it as such, too. Perhaps try considering that -- but there is certainly nothing wrong with girlie and feminist things like Bust magazine only promote more of it.