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Spiritual Activism
Provided by The Women’s Institute at Omega

Our new column, Spiritual Activism, examines a growing approach to social justice activism – one that provides a holistic, relationship-based framework for working for change.

Each of the next 10 columns will be an exploration of one of the 10 emerging principles of spiritual activism articulated in the first column.

7. Seeking Balance

We seek balance in our lives to bring healing to self and others; balance between our inner and outer lives, and between our mind, body, heart, and spirit.

There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. - Freya Stark

Balance Beyond the Pie Chart
By Carla Goldstein
Director, The Women’s Institute at Omega

I marvel at seagulls when they rest on one leg and face calmly into the wind without toppling over. If only finding balance was that simple for us human beings. In a world filled with paradox, chaos, and constant change, navigating life with any sense of real balance can seem impossible.

In magazine headlines “finding balance” is often talked about as a lifestyle quest, with an emphasis on living a full life. We are encouraged to plan our activities so that they are evenly distributed around a pie chart of life’s important areas: family and friends, creativity, career, romance, health, money, personal and spiritual growth, and physical environment.

The pie chart is a great tool for self-reflection. The first time I did it led me to big insight. But it’s missing an important concept of balance – the alignment between one’s inner most values and outer world actions. Being well-rounded in activity doesn't guarantee that you are living by what you personally value most deeply.

Trying to fill in each area of the pie chart can lead to a lot of "shoulds" that actually keep you away from following your own map and listening to what is calling you most. Also, a balance template overlooks the natural ebb and flow of life that allows one area to blossom while another is quietly ripening.

Questioning our sense of balance from a values-based perspective might seem unnecessary for people who consider themselves activists because our activism usually grows out of passionate caring for others. Yet, when I examined the alignment between the why and how of my activism, I had a big aha! Love for others was my motivation, but my actions were not filled with loving activity. In fact, from the perspective of aligning values to action – I was way out of balance.

As a reproductive rights activist, my actions were fueled by an automated anger and carried out in repetitious competitive maneuvering against my "enemy." I was looking to trump, silence, and devalue the “other side.” I was a name caller. I refused to see the full humanity of those whom I felt threatened my sense of truth and what is right. I was cultivating more of what I did not want to see or experience in the world.

When I realized the gap between my motivation and my actions, I began to make changes. I did not give up my deeply held convictions, but I started paying attention to the process by which I sought them. In what could be thought of as coming full circle, I began leaning into the historical phrase “the personal is the political,” and looking for the equilibrium between my own personal and political.

I also realized that balance is not a static state, nor a final destination point. It is a way of being that recognizes life is about relationships and is always in process, variable, active, and dialectic. Like an airplane that does not simply fly via a straight line from point A to point B, but instead has to constantly correct itself by flying in little vectors off of the straight line route, we can work with the idea of balance as a values-centering tool, a guide post that brings back, again and again, to what we cherish most.

Living in balance this way opens up the field of possibilities for our activism to be about everything we do. Instead of focusing primarily on the issues from a systemic perspective alone, like a public policy issue, debate or campaign, we can take responsibility for the impact of our whole lives and remember that every action counts and has the potential to set in motion that which we most want to manifest in the world.

Balance Reflection Exercise

A good way to begin thinking about this kind of balance is to make up a list of things you most value in life such as peace, creativity, freedom, learning, healthfulness, strength, and so on and evaluate how you are living in relationship to those values. Are you living peacefully if you value peace? Are you making healthful choices if you value health? Are you living with strength? And if your values change, are your actions adjusting to reflect what you care most about?

Once you’ve done the values-to-action audit, you can see where changes need to be made to bring things into closer alignment. Over time seeking to narrow the gap between what we hold dear and what we do becomes a way of being. We can learn to hold it with the compassionate understanding that being in balance is not a steady state but a way to work with the opposing forces life puts in front of us.

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Previous "Spiritual Activism" Columns:

Co-creating The World We Seek

Taking Heart to Make Change

Seeing the Ties that Bind Us Together

Transforming the Nature of Power

Building The Empathy Superhighway

Mindfulness and Presence: Activism in the Now

Activism From The Heart of Paradox

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Carla Goldstein, J.D., is Omega's Director of External Affairs and Director of The Women's Institute at Omega. Carla is an attorney with 20 years of experience in public interest advocacy and has worked extensively in city and state government on issues related to women's rights, poverty, public health and social justice. She has contributed to over 100 city, state and federal laws. Carla has appeared on local and national radio and television and makes public presentations to a wide range of audiences on issues related to women’s empowerment and activism. Prior to joining the Omega Institute, Carla was the VP for Public Affairsat Planned Parenthood of New York City where she directed the agency'sadvocacy and strategic communications work. She also served as the foundingdirector of the PPNYC Action Fund, the political arm of PPNYC. For eight years Carla was an adjunct professor at CUNY Queens College, where she taught, “Law and Social Justice,” a course designed to empower students to be effective advocates for progressive social change. As part of Omega’s Faculty, Carla teaches “Spiritual Activism,” a workshop designed to help people develop their activism in creative ways that align with their values and lives.

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Come join Carla at this summer at Omega Institute for Holistic Studies in Rhinebeck, New York.
September 11-13, 2009: Women & Power: Connecting Across the Generations

For the past seven years, Omega’s Women & Power conferences have been attended by thousands of women from around the world. Hailed for their groundbreaking speakers and uplifting community atmosphere, the gatherings have helped define an emerging women’s movement that balances inner wisdom with outer action.

This year we are breaking new ground again and addressing a timely topic, the need for women of different ages to gather and inspire each other across the generations. Our speakers and workshop leaders are trailblazers from several generations who will be in conversation with each other and us throughout the weekend.

In an era when women’s wisdom is needed more than ever, it will take all of us to weave the lessons learned in past generations into the realities facing women today. During the weekend—in keynote talks, breakout workshops, informal conversations, and evening entertainment—we have the unique experience to hear from and connect with women from different generations, to empower each other, and to discuss the big questions facing women today.

October 2–4, 2009: Women’s Leadership Circle

For thousands of years, women have gathered in circles to discuss the key issues in their lives. Today, women’s circles provide opportunities for mutual support to make personal and social change.

This workshop offers an opportunity to learn powerful strategies for leading from our feminine core. It is for women of any age whose work or volunteer activities require them to exercise leadership, and for women who want to develop leadership skills.

“As women have increasingly taken on leadership roles in every facet of life, the old command-and-control leadership model is giving way to a new empowerment model,” says Carla Goldstein. “In family, business, religion, and politics—women are transforming how we address human needs by sharing power, building bridges across divides, and finding ways to unlock individual and group potential in creative and life-affirming ways.”

Through group discussion, lecture, writing, reflection, and play, we explore how to build effective collaborations, create allies, and work in horizontal teams. We also learn how to bring about transformative engagement by forging new social visions that can be realized through an empowerment model of leadership.

For more information visit eomega.org

Founded in 1977, Omega is the nation's largest holistic learning center whose mission is provide innovative educational experiences that awaken the best in the human spirit, providing hope and healing for individuals and society. Every year more than 20,000 people attend workshops, retreats, and conferences on its 195-acre campus in the countryside of Rhinebeck, New York, and at other sites around the country.

The Women’s Institute, a dynamic new component of Omega, is dedicated to empowering women around the world. It has grown out of the momentum created by the annual Women and Power conferences that Omega Institute has presented in partnership with V-Day since 2002. It seeks to sustain throughout the year the community and inspiration generated at the conferences. Women’s deep wisdom is essential to the creation of a more sustainable and loving culture in every facet of life, from the personal to the political. The Women’s Institute provides opportunities for women and men to inspire and strengthen their visions and authentic voices through unique learning and community building experiences.

For more information, visit www.eomega.org.